Nesting is a relatively new concept in the world of child custody. It has gained in popularity in recent years as more and more parents are looking for ways to maintain close relationships with their children after a divorce.
What is nesting?
Nesting is an arrangement in which the child or children stays in the family home while both parents take turns living there. This type of arrangement allows each parent to have time with their without having to move out of the house and disrupt their lives.
It typically involves both parents living in the same home on a rotating basis. For example, one parent may live there for two weeks and then switch with the other parent for another two weeks. The child stays in their own bedroom or space during the arrangement and remains with whichever parent is living in the house at that time.
What are the benefits of nesting?
Nesting can be beneficial for both parents and children. It gives each parent a chance to maintain an important connection with their child without the need to relocate or disrupt their lives, while also providing stability for the child by remaining in the same home.
It can also help reduce conflict between parents as they can separate their personal lives while focusing on their children. Plus, it minimizes the stress on the child as they don’t have to keep switching and packing clothes between two different homes.
Getting started
If you and your ex-spouse are interested in nesting, there are a few steps you can take to make the child custody process easier. First, make sure that both of you feel comfortable with the idea and sign an agreement that outlines how it will work logistically. Finally, establish clear communication and visitation schedules to ensure that each parent gets their fair share of parenting time.
Nesting can be an excellent solution for divorced parents who want to minimize the disruption to their children’s lives and maintain close relationships with them. By following the steps outlined above, you can ensure that your child has a safe, secure and loving environment. For those who are unsure or have specific questions, reaching out to a legal advocate is advised.